Face Plant: My Adventures in Social Networking
I recently became a facebook member, because one of the three people in the world who consider me web savvy asked me to check something out and, as long as I was there, I thought, what the hell?
So far:
- It felt slightly weird to be on a social networking site as a 48 year old male.
- Facebook feels very mazelike and crablike, especially at first.
- Asking people to be your friends is uncomfortable even though they actually are your friends. In all those lunches, retreats, seminars, ping pong games, no one ever said, “you know, we’re friends.” This also forces one to define friend. My rule is: if I would recognize and greet you on the street, you are my friend. This may be kind of a whorish or at least Irish definition of friend but that's me.
- Facebook has some nice apps/features/whatevers: iLike allows you to display little photos of your favorite musical artists. It notes when they are on tour, when they are near your city, and when they’ve released music. You are also told when your friends have birthdays and you can post a little note right on their site.
- I am friends with the Rolling Stones and, even more weirdly, Chet Baker. Why am I not friends with Steely Dan (the band, not the prop)? Are they stuck up?




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